The perfect gift

 

We've all been there. You drive yourself crazy trying to find that special something for that special someone. A gift that says, "I think you are adorable and I want to hold your hand."

Since I consider myself a pretty masterful gift-giver, here are some tips.

1) Listen. 

Generally, this person will give you hints in advance. Sometimes indirectly. Paying attention to simple questions like "What does my Romeo/Juliet enjoy?" can take you from zero to hero. Keep a notebook and jot down any ideas you have throughout the year. Because lets be honest, your memory sucks.

2) Think outside the box.

Don't just stick to generic gifts. For example, if your man/lady likes a certain book, why not hunt for the FIRST EDITION of said book? Go the extra mile. You know what I mean.

3) Keep your mouth shut.

Nothing ruins a surprise like blabbing what it is. So just don't.

I will leave you with a lovely story. Today is Aaron's birthday. Yayyy Aaron. That being said, I had the perfect gift idea. A while ago, he mentioned that he liked skating. We had not skated together since I have the balance of Jello. 

The perfect gift? I rented out an ice rink just for the two of us. There was a huge sign wishing him happy birthday, dimmed lights, cute music. The whole shebang. 

He loved it.

Except for the part where I fell and hit my head on the ice. 

Really, really REALLY hard.

I might have a concussion. In fact, I may not remember writing this blog post tomorrow.

This is why you can't take me nice places.

Till next time,

Nesh

More Zucchini Please

Readers,

I know that I have kind of veered away from my original cooking posts, and for that I apologize. I still love cooking, though.

To kind of steer myself back in the culinary direction, I have decided to share my food baby with you. That came out wrong.

I consider this recipe to be my "baby" because it can save any party or social gathering [including those thrown by yours truly].

This recipe for Zucchini cakes will make you everyone's best friend. It is quick, simple, and incredibly delicious. Use ranch dressing and sour cream as a dressing and you are all set.

Click on the link below to treat your taste buds!

Zucchini Cakes

Till next time!
Nesh

Achey Breaky Heart

 

I just watched Blue Valentine.

Before I gush over how handsome Ryan Gosling is and how Michelle Williams gets cuter with age, let me just say, wow.

I am still trying to recover. I feel like my heart has been torn out and stomped on by an angry mob. It will take Aaron years to get the snot and tears off his shirt. Mine, not his. Maybe his too, I don't know.

This movie flashes back and forth in time as it follows the lives of a young couple, Cindy and Dean. It flashes between the then and now, the good and the bad.

I know I rambled on about divorce earlier, but this subject is really touchy for me. No, my parents did not divorce and leave me heartbroken. In fact, it is the opposite.

My parents have a great marriage. While I know people who are divorced, I had never really seen the process.

In this movie, I witnessed two people with an incredible pure love. Then I watched them hate each other.

The director, Derek Cianfrance, does an exceptional job of capturing the pain and torture that results from the ending of a marriage.

This is an exceptional movie. See it. But, be prepared to be in an emotional abyss for days after.

P.S Ryan Gosling is so handsome and Michelle Williams gets cuter with age. There, I gushed.

Mo' way José

Aaron rocking the pedo-stache

It's November! And you know what that means...countless men across the globe are growing out their facial hair to raise money for prostate cancer research.

Aaron and his housemates have decided to partake in "Movember", and while I hate the fact that he looks like a sex offender, I am fully supportive of the cause.

I lost my grandfather to cancer many years ago, and think it's a great idea to try and save someone else's grandpa.

If you and your friends want to help out, you can start your own Movember team at www.movember.com.

And if cannot grow facial hair, click on the following link to check out Aaron's team page and make a donation:
The Man's Badge of Courage

Also, don't fear ladies, you too can get involved. You can join a team as a MoSista. All this really requires is for you to gather donations, but I encourage you to get in the spirit and stop shaving your legs. Just kidding. Sort of.

Check out my MoSista page:
http://us.movember.com/mospace/2466628/

Thanks for the support!
Nesh <3

I do....NOT.

Readers,
I am DEEPLY shocked to announce the divorce of Kim Kardashian and basketball star, Kris Humphries. The pair split after just seventy two days. Yes, SEVENTY TWO DAYS. I have had showers that lasted longer than that marriage.

I would also like to judge the fact that the wedding itself reportedly cost about TEN MILLION DOLLARS. What could she possibly have done to spend that much money? Well, Aaron and I have discussed it, and there is only one plausible explanation:

Kimmy K. and Krissy H. must've paid for ALL their guest's weddings in return for their attendance. Makes sense. TONS of sense.

That being said, this scandal has gotten me thinking about how easy divorce is these days.

I can't help but wonder if the addition of "irreconcilable differences" as a reason for a failed marriage has made things too simple. In the olden days, couples had no choice but to work on their relationships.

It saddens me to see how individuals treat marriages as simple courtships. To some, it is easier to bail and start over than to actually solve work hard at solving problems.

All I know, is that America's rising divorce statistics have me terrified. The white picket fence has never looked so crooked.

'Till death do us part,
Nesh <3

The 5 Halloween costumes that will disappoint your parents the most.

Hooray, it's Halloween!

A time to leave your identity behind. A time to become what you wouldn't dare to be any other time of year.

A slore.

Let's face it ladies, ever since our neighbors started questioning whether or not we're too old to be trick-or-treating [jerks], we have found a new joy in this glorious holiday.

Let's face it, the only thing better than receiving candy, is being candy.

Eye candy that is.

That's all great. But, of course, there are a few individuals who take that too far and use Halloween as an excuse to come out of the nudist closet. Gross.

Here are a few examples that are sure to make your grandmother cry;

1) Naughty School Girl

 

Now listen, I went to school. In fact, sometimes I was even a little bad. I got detention once. But, never EVER in my academic career did my school uniform look like this. That being said, these school girls should probably see a doctor because they seem to be developing at an alarming rate. When I was a school girl, I was as developed as an ironing board.

2) Sexy Roller girl

Now this one isn't so bad. Look she even has a hobby and everything. On the other hand, this costume reminds me of this recurring nightmare I had as a child:
I wake up, SUPER excited to go to the roller rink for my birthday party. Then, the HORROR.
 I forgot my pants.

3) Sexy Honey Bee

 

YOU ARE NAKED. 

Bees are cute and all, I get it. That being said, YOU ARE IN YOUR UNDERWEAR. And no, the furry boots do not make it any better, they just draw attention to your inappropriately exposed goodies.

4) Santa Babe

 

Oh okay, Christmas. I get it. Cute. Who doesn't love Christmas, right?

Now, why dear lady, are you jumping your guns? It's Halloween. Enjoy it. 

Does this mean you do an Easter egg hunt for New Years. Jeeze, lady.

Also, I have seen Santa, and this is NOT what he wears. Not even remotely. And don't promote this outfit change either. Do you really want to see a very old, very large man working this get up?

I don't.

5) Smokin' hot Fireman

 

Now isn't this nice? Every day our emergency workings slave away to ensure that our lives are safe.

It's just lovely to see them being recognized. They get medals, awards, and this young lady with 'Smokin' slapped across her breasts. 

Ah, America.

Till next time,

Nesh

Sneaky Tequila

Remember that time I told you I was crazy? Well, this post just builds on that.

Tequila [I also call her Tee , or Tila] has this new obsession with hiding things. The other day she got a new bone, and five minutes later, it had disappeared. Then, we gave her another bone, and sort of tried to spy on her.

She sat there, chewing slowly, staring at us the whole time, waiting for us to look away.

At last we did, but AHA, we were faking her out. She was already on the couch, trying to hide her bone in the cushions. When I said, "Tila, what are you doing?" She made the guiltiest face I have ever seen. Luckily, I had a camera.

Caught in the act

Later that day, we found her trying to hide kibble in Aaron's housemate's jacket. I guess she is just saving for a rainy day. Apparently, she has a pretty firm grasp on the horrors of out economy.

She is too cute.

Nesh